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The Feminist Wetblanket is back (a day late and a dollar short - what does that mean, anyways?) with an article on plastic surgery and what exactly we’re losing when we go under the knife.

Beauty and youth are perhaps the two most valued attributes in US society. While one could argue that money, fame, power, kindness, etc, are more valued that beauty or youth, it is difficult to argue against the facts and figures. The cosmetics industry alone spends about $18 billion a year in the United States alone marketing and creating products. Compare this with the statistic from the American Society of Plastic Surgeons: in 2006, almost 11 million cosmetic plastic surgeries were performed in the United States.

Whether it be a fear of growing old, losing a significant other, or not being valued anymore, tons of Americans are lining up outside of Dr. 90210’s office to get their labia reduced, breasts and butts augmented, and noses chipped away. It may not even be fear, it may simply be the desire to be “beautiful”. But with all this plastic surgery, what are we losing?

Of course, in Hollywood, cosmetic procedures are “necessary” to maintain that young and “fresh” look. But even with all of these procedures, older actresses are not getting main movie roles. Save few exceptions in Helen Mirren and others, there are almost no “older” (read: 40-something) women in Hollywood gaining lead movie roles. So really… the plastic surgery isn’t saving their careers as much as it’s proving just how undesirable women like Demi Moore would later feel when they suddenly found themselves out of work. While Hollywood may not be the best play to draw inferences from, it is important to ask how does this influence those living outside of Tinsel Town?

Models, actresses, singers, and other entertainers are looked to as trend setters for what’s hot and what’s not. The ongoing debate over who brought leggings back - was it the Olsen twins or Lindsay Lohan? - is just one example of how something so frivolous as legwear can cause the fashion community to ignite. But what about when it comes to more important - and potentially dangerous - trends like botox, breast augmentations, tummy tucks, and face lifts? What message are these trend setters sending?

It’s highly unlikely that any person attempting to peruse the magazine section of their local bookstore can find a glossy without a section devoted to plastic surgery. Whether it be a “then and now” comparison of celebrities and their plastic surgery denials or an article weighing the benefits and consequences of the latest liposuction technique, it’s guaranteed to be there. It’s in our faces and we can’t hide from it.

Now don’t get me wrong, plastic surgery can have its benefits - it can save burn victims or be used to remove big scary scars. But when plastic surgery is used to remove that extra bit of fat from your ass and implant it into your cheeks or lips I’m pretty sure the only justifiable reason for that is vanity. You’re doing more than just distributing fat when you’re under that knife: you’re telling yourself just how much you dislike your physical appearance. Who can blame you, of course, with all the pressure from advertisements and the media pushing slim bodies and large breasts onto you from an early age?

I’m not a fan of plastic surgery and would never dream of getting a procedure done because I’m grateful for the body I have and I love all the woobly bits and its squishy-ness. I can understand the desire to remove scars or a birth defect (which some may consider unsightly, while others consider it a part of themselves) or even undergo a breast reduction for health reasons, but I can’t understand going from a B cup to a D cup, or getting a new nose. But for the women who go in to have their noses reshaped or their chins adjusted, can they really say they love their body? There’s a huge difference between being concerned about your appearance and getting the occasional fake tan or working out and making an appointment to have your breasts redone or your tummy tucked in.

As a feminist, I can accept that there are different kinds of beauty of there and not all of them may be culturally acceptable. While there may be some feminists going under the knife to get a bigger x or a smaller y, they probably have a different prespective on things than I do. In reality, this is all about perspective: whether or not you truly love your body and yourself or whether or not you can withstand the pressure of the full-frontal assault of the media and entertainment industries. When we go under the knife, we’re not just solving those little physical imperfections, we’re losing self respect.

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Castration in exchange for a shorter prison sentence for rapists? I think yes!

Of course, it’s never as simple as “cut the penis, cure the rapist”, but it is a step in the right direction. Not because the justice system is cutting off people’s penises, but because courts are finally becoming more serious about alternative punishments for violent or repeat offenders.

I compare this to a judge finding a man guilty of beating his wife but assigning him to anger management classes. He doesn’t need to manage his anger because he already knows how. When was the last time you saw someone beating their wife in public? Exactly. Alternative punishments for rapists and batterers such as therapy or other less archaic solutions can often times help prevent the problem before it happens again, rather than locking up someone and throwing away the key - only to release them 25 years later into a world they no longer know how to function in. Don’t get me wrong, I’m in favor of some offenders going to prison, but I am an advocate for alternative punishments and solutions for criminals.

And remember! It’s important to consider alternative punishments (sometimes in addition to jail time) so that obviously guilty people do not walk away free simply because they couldn’t possibly beat another woman with an iron.

Liz is back from a short hiatus with The Feminist Wetblanket: a weekly column that combines feminism and two of her favorite things to poke fun at: media and popular culture.

I think it is very necessary to begin this week’s column by pointing out that I love Ugly Betty. The witticisms are amazing, and it is just so deliciously evil at times that I want to explode with joy that someone finally managed to get good programming on television. But after I explode with euphoria, I realize that no matter how much I love the show (and America Ferrera), I can’t get past the fact that it perpetuates terrible stereotypes of both men and women in pretty much every episode.

Now, part of the problem with Ugly Betty is that Selma Hayek borrowed (ok, took) the show’s premise, characters, etc, from a Brazilian* telenovela. So part of the blame for the stereotypes portrayed in the series rests with its original creators. Since I live in the United States and don’t speak a language other than English, I’ve never watched the original Ugly Betty. I apologize for my ignorance.

The basic idea behind Ugly Betty is that Betty is a fish out of water at Mode magazine, where she is the Executive Assistant to the Editor in Chief. Betty isn’t Ugly, she’s just not Mode material. The good news is that - most of the time - Betty is happy being a fish out of water at Mode, she doesn’t want to fit in with people she views as deceitful and vapid. She loves her odd clothes, braces, weight, and ethnicity. But what we, as viewers, love the most about Betty is her heart of gold. But what I hate the most about Betty and her Mode cohorts is that they uphold stereotypes that can be extremely damaging.

First off, we have Betty. She’s surrounded by gorgeous men and women basically everyday of her working life. What do we learn from these vapid, cruel, and fashion-obsessed lot? That pretty girls (and boys) can’t be smart. You have to be ugly, like Betty, to be kind and intelligent. While Betty can be slow to pick up on insults from her co-workers, we don’t see this as a flaw in her: we see Betty as innocent and full of kindness.

We see the exact opposite in Amanda, Mode’s receptionist. Amanda is beautiful, but let’s face it, she’s a shallow bitch. Only concerned with fashion, her weight (which she should be, since she binge eats), attracting the right men, and succeeding at Mode, Amanda is exactly the type of person Mode caters to. She’s cruel, heartless (most of the time), and obsessed with getting things her way. She’s just dumb enough to buy into anything anyone tells her is fashionable (even if it is essentially a body condom), and she has surprisingly little ability to think for herself when it comes to fashion and pretty much anything else in her life. She’s the classic “pretty, but stupid” girl we all sat next to in high school. She’s pretty ugly.

And the gays (whom I love dearly) on Ugly Betty are only men, and they’re only flamboyant. While I get that the show is about fashion and a certain type of gay man is attracted to the industry, it isn’t helping the stereotype of the flamboyant gay when Willie tells Mark that something he did was “too gay”. I wasn’t aware that you could be “too gay”. Can you be “too straight”?

The only gorgeous and smart women on the show are Alexis and Willie - both of which have terrible flaws in them. Alexis, well, her intelligence can be attributed to the fact that she used to be a man and she’s just carrying that over from a previous life. Regardless of her intelligence, Alexis is hellbent on punishing her brother and father for their rejection of her. Which is interesting because he brother didn’t have an opportunity to reject her: she rejected him because he was too much like their father. Willie is just as hellbent on getting things her way. She even goes as far to have an affair with Bradford Mead, trick him into divorcing his wife, and again trick him into marrying her. Willie is so busy sleeping her way to the top that we forget she’s extremely talented. Alexis and Willie, while intelligent and beautiful women, are downright evil. The phrase “the devil wears Prada” takes on new meaning with these two women: they further prove that when women are extremely beautiful and intelligent, they can only be evil.

So whether it comes to the ugly girl with a heart of gold, the pretty ugly girl, the “too gay” gay, or the devil in a woman’s clothing, Ugly Betty consistently lets us down with their portrayals of men and women. Even Selma Hayek’s guest spot portrayed women negatively: she lead Daniel on and broke his heart, all for a magazine cover that would ensure her success. I don’t know about you, but that was the worst way I could think of them to portray a feminist in the series. It makes my tiny feminist heart break that Selma Hayek couldn’t managed to put together a show with women who are beautiful, talented, intelligent, and nice with normal flaws. Hey, maybe we could get a lesbian in there? Real women, like us at dollymix (k I realize that was corny, but it’s true!).

The author would like to extend her heartfelt congratulations to Ms. Ferrera for being the first Latina woman to be nominated for - and win - an Emmy for Best Actress in a Comedy. Liz has loved Ms. Ferrera since she first saw her in Real Women Have Curves, and she’s glad to see she’s still rocking the same gorgeous normal body with confidence in a town that values Nicole Richie and Angelina Jolie sized women.

* this is incorrect. The series was adapted from a Colombian telenovela.

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Over the past two and a half days, my employer, the California Partnership to End Domestic Violence held its Annual Meeting in Sacramento, CA. I was extremely lucky to attend and I was fortunate enough to speak with, listen to, or eat a meal with pioneers in the domestic violence, feminist, and reproductive health movements. I listened to Ellen Pence and her stories during her speech on Monday. I got to see Ruth Slaughter accept a lifetime achievement award for opening the first domestic violence shelter in the United States. I felt privileged to hear Loretta Ross, the National Coordinator for SisterSong (a black women’s reproductive health coalition with 80 member organizations) speak on ways we can improve the domestic violence movement. It was two very exciting days spent with both new and old school feminists - both male and female - sharing ideas on how to stop violence, period. Not just violence against women in the domestic sense, but violence PERIOD.

And Ms. Loretta Ross asked us a question today, which I now bring to you:
Why are you a feminist?
Loretta’s response? (jokingly or seriously…) Because I want better men.

My response? Because I believe in equality - and not just the sense that we can treat each other equally poorly, but that we can treat each other with love and compassion and acknowledge the 8 different areas of human rights for each and every single person on this planet. Not just here in the United States, but in other countries, too. A bit idealist, but hey, that’s what my generation is around for. I believe in a world where marriage is not necessary for health care or other legal benefits. I believe that a world can exist where not only can I vote, but where my vote can be counted. Not in the electoral sense - actually counted. I believe in a world where all of the injustices that further bring down domestic violence victims can be eradicated and allow us to stop the violence against people on all levels. I believe in a lot, and I don’t think I can fit it all here… but I do believe that it is possible. All we need is a shared framework, and it has already been laid down for us by the United Nations. We just have to use it.

So, why are you a feminist?

I was not planning on posting anything while Cate is away on vacation, but recent events have motivated me to write an article about the Jena 6. If you have not heard of this case, I recommend you read some of the articles I’ve listed at the bottom of this post to familiarize yourself with the events. Because you often can’t separate racism from sexism, it’s important to increase awareness of them to feminists around the globe. The Feminist Wetblanket will return shortly.

If you haven’t heard about the Jena 6 by now, it’s probably because major media networks haven’t been willing to touch it until recently. I’m of the opinion that the story so classically represents how racism is still alive and well in the United States and, that because of this, networks like CNN, ABC, and especially FOX, weren’t sure how to approach the issue when it was so obvious. I’ve seen dozens of stories that hinted at a racial bias that have been aired on major media networks, but I’ve haven’t seen anything akin to the Jena 6 story in quite awhile.

To the viewer, the attempted murder charges of the 6 black students are obviously racist. While those boys do deserve some punishment for their actions, so do the white boys who hung the nooses. It’s my understanding that expulsion was the intended punishment, but was later changed to a 3 day suspension. A 3 day suspension does not teach a teenager what they’ve done wrong. It gives them time to hang out with their friends and relax. And if there is even a hint of social learning here, I doubt their parents cared enough to punish their children. I could be wrong - their parents could be a paragon of democracy who punished their sons as gravely as they deserved to be. Even if it was a prank, the children should be punished severely enough to make it clear that pranks of this magnitude should not be allowed. These boys are still children: only a child would be stupid enough to do something so hateful and either not realize the ramifications or believe that they could get away with it, either because they knew others felt the same way or because they were cocky.

Everything in the coverage of this is implied. We’re supposed to just know that the nooses were meant to tell the black boys they didn’t belong at this tree. Anyone who isn’t familiar with the KKK and their lovely tactics or the history of tension between blacks and whites in the south wouldn’t know this was the message. Sure, they would understand the threat, but they wouldn’t understand the background and why this is such a shocking incident. They wouldn’t understand just why it is that the nooses were so terrible to invoke 6 boys to beat up a fellow classmate. And anyone not reading between the lines wouldn’t pick up that the charges are biased because they are based on more than just the fact that 6 black boys beat up 1 white boy. They’re based on a traditional view that blacks “can’t do that” to whites because they’re inferior. Not understanding the history of the south and the racial tension that still exists there makes this case feel like it was all a simple misunderstanding. But it’s not just a simple misunderstanding: it’s a frighteningly real chain of events set into motion based on antiquated views of race that relied on violence to send messages of who is allowed access to what and who can and can’t do certain things. Myth of the black rapist, anyone? I’m sure poor Angela Davis is not very happy with the current state of events.

I’m of the opinion that the Jena 6 should receive the same punishment as their antagonizers: a 3 day suspension. Essentially, a slap on the wrist. To not correctly punish an act that sends a message of hatred as strong as the nooses did to the black students also sends the message that these acts of hatred will go unpunished. The fact of the matter is, the white students “hinted” (I would go as far as saying they actually threatened) that they were going to commit a hate crime if the black students sat under the tree again.

But there is a root to this story that I don’t think any of the reporting networks have yet addressed: why did the black students feel they had to ask if it was ok for them to sit under the tree? When you look at the case from this point of view, it shouldn’t come ask a shock that the black students are being tried for attempted murder while the white students faced literally no criminal charges. Louisiana may not be the most liberal of states, but they do have a court system that will hopefully recognize this case as a prime example of racism. The sad thing is, it shouldn’t even have to come to that: the boys should have never been charged in the first place. How often to 6 white boys get charged with attempted murder after beating up another kid at school? I guarantee you the same thing happens with gangs in southern California and they aren’t getting brought up on attempted murder charges.

In the case of black and white, it seems little has changed since 1865. What actually scares me the most about this case is the media coverage. I have yet to hear the word “racist” uttered by any reporter or journalist. It seems as the though the media, in an attempt to remain neutral (as if they ever are), refuses to even say “racist” in their news reports. But by ignoring this message of hate based in racism, are they conveying a message of ignorance and racism themselves?

Since I’ve written this article early this morning, the charges for two of the boys have been reduced.

News coverage:
CNN | Residents: Nooses spark school violence, divide town
Truth Out | Injustice in Jena as Nooses Hang From the “White Tree”
The Observer | Racism goes on trial again in America’s Deep South

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So now that Addison is no longer an attending on Grey’s Anatomy, there seems to be something missing. I didn’t realize it before, but in the photos it becomes extremely clear: all of the head physicians in the series are men, including the Chief of Surgery. Notice the dark blue scrubs? All men. What happened to a diverse cast? Way to completely eliminate women from the positions of power, Shonda.

Please note: I know gonads are in both male and female bodies, I was just going for the alliteration.